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Thursday, December 31, 2009

365 days later...

I look back and exactly 365 days ago I started this blog. It’s actually been nice to capture the year in my brief thoughts and pictures. Some things haven’t changed and some have. The obvious don’t need to be mentioned but my favorite should…so I have compiled a list of the same and different…in no particular order:
Same: house, town, TonyDanza, job, family and some friends, car,
Different: Lola, Elvis(here then gone), bathroom, friends, painted walls, assistant at work, Pampered Chef Consultant, and maybe a few more!

I’m looking forward to a new year, a new decade, new stories, … This is a time to reflect on the past…and-
"may auld acquaintance be forgot,
And never brought to mind.
Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And auld lang syne!"

Another Christmas over...where does time go?

It was great to have a few days off for the holidays. I love my family’s tradition of fondue-ing. We have been doing this for a couple years and of all things, it’s probably my favorite. After me going to college, it was hard to get back for the holidays and spend time just the four of us, we were missing so many things. We started spending Christmas Day at home. We open presents in the morning after chores, fondue for lunch, play games or watch movies the rest of the day. It’s so relaxing. It’s nice to spend the day with just us four…no agenda, just Christmas and a fireplace!

Santa and the holidays were too good to me, I got a lot of things on my Christmas List! A blockheater, a larger crockpot, hand warmers, wall hangings, mittens, massages, a few vintage things, and lots of love…

Christmas at Grandma and Grandpa Moser’s was quiet…I remember fitting a million people in a room and opening presents. We had a few families but because of the weather, not everyone was able to make it. Jaden and Sam’s little guy was there…he’s going to be a big kid! It was amazing how content he was surrounded by all these strangers!

The storm was awful…Makes me think White Christmases are overrated! I have some AWESOME friends though…Sheri and Scott called me the day after Christmas because they wanted to unplug my driveway and sidewalk! That’s probably the best present that I received…good friends who do soooo much for me! I was shocked to get back to Dickinson and see the town submerged in white bhluck. I was able to pull into my garage after removing the 3 foot high by 7 foot wide drift the city put in my driveway! Stupid Dickinson Way! And to think Janice said it never snows in Dickinson…hmmm!

This year Christmas was nothing that I planned or expected but there were some great moments that really tugged at my heart and reminded me of what I have.

Amanda's Christmas List

-Large Bathtowels, pink or any shade of brown
-Book: Crash Course in Love, by Steve Ward
-Scarves
-Slippers
-New Eli Mattson CD
-iTunes Music
-Larger Crockpot
-Victoria's Secret Soft and Sexy Wrap
-Blockheater for Grand Prix
-Oven with flattop surface for a stove

Monday, December 21, 2009

Christmas…already?

Wow, I have had to get myself in the holiday season really quick. I’m not sure I’m ready and am thinking of adopting my mother’s idea of just waiting until February to give out presents because it feels like October!

Last week I had two holiday parties-the Dickinson State University Holiday Social and the Dickinson YP party. I actually won a poinsettia plant at the DSU Social. I felt pretty good, actually the table that I sat at had 6 winners out of 9…Those are good odds…unless you are the other 125 people that didn’t win anything! We had a trivia competition party for YP. I didn’t win but wished I would have been more persuasive to my team about convincing them that Rocket Man did not hit the top 5 on the Billboard charts. Could’ve made the difference between 4th and 3rd place…who knows!

This past weekend I had the Dagman Christmas. It was endearing to see Ambour’s kids…how can you not feel in touched when you watch two kids under 4 open presents and proceed to thank everyone. The best present was $.52. Little Kemma got a purse and matching headband as a present and Mom convinced Dad to give her some money to put in her purse. She gave the sweetest hug and continued to play with “her money” for the rest of the present opening time. That little hug was the most Christmas I’ve felt this whole season.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Breathing in the cold air again.

Okay, I don’t remember last winter being cold. Maybe I’m starting to hallucinate from the below ZERO WEATHER! I actually tried to use my snowblower on Sunday but had to get a lesson from Scott Monroe…thank heavens for him! He’s also planning on showing me how to use my grill later on in life. Thank God for good friends.

Went to Fargo this past weekend for a couple reasons-the best reason was to see Janice and Jerry. I really miss them being so close. The best thing about me moving to Dickinson was getting to know them better. I forgot how much the two of them made me laugh! The funniest part was that Janice waited up for me on Friday night until 2:00 in the morning…My 71 year old Aunt is waiting up for her 26 year old niece and her boyfriend is yelling at her to get back to bed! Memories like that will always bring a smile to my face.

I’m not ready for Christmas I admit, I haven’t bought a present this month and not so ready to yet! This fall has really thrown off my calendar; it doesn’t feel like Christmas is next week. I haven’t baked ANYTHING holiday-ish or even thought about wrapping presents yet. Mom’s side is on Sunday, Dad’s side in on Christmas Eve, and just the four of us on Christmas day. I need to maybe just throw a Christmas CD in and hope for spirit to take me away!

Dan and I won’t be friends, maybe we had too much invested and now our actions are impacting these chances. I know family or friends have made comments about things working out or the possibility of our relationship. I know now that these aren’t options. We are seeing each other in different lights and I know I don’t like it. My goal in dealing with the fragments of our relationship is trying to stay true to the person that I want to be. I guess there are two sides to every story—one from each point of view. Thank you to those that have given me what I’ve asked of you or what I haven’t asked for. I know that I have created a wonderful support system that has become aware to me, that’s been the best outcome of this whole ordeal. Aunt Janice said to me something this weekend that was very profound. I’m not sure if she meant to catch my thoughts the way she did—the only benefit in looking at the past is to learn something. I’m working on learning about me, about what I want and what I need in a relationship. In some ways I still feel that this fall has been a huge sucker punch to my stomach, but I’m standing again.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Countdown to Christmas!

Christmas is so close, I can’t believe it’s December!
I admit it was hard to pull out the Christmas tree and things to decorate this year, but I had help from two little elves! Well, I had help until I wouldn’t let them eat the tinsel or run off with the fluffy ornaments—then they got bored and left me alone!



I did put the tree up and got my living room decorated. If you look closely in the pics, you can see my little elves! They do make me smile. Next week I wrap presents!

I also got to shovel both Saturday and Sunday. I guess winter is officially here. Yuck! Let’s hope it goes quick and painlessly!

Vivas Vegas!

I’m back…booo! I can’t believe the week went by sooo quickly. Vegas was great. I can’t believe how lucky I am to have a mother who will subject my feet to new levels of torture but an aunt that appreciates sleeping in and “resting”!

We got to Vegas and were put into the cab ride from Hell. Not only did he make me check the speedometer and take the shoulder of the road to pass, he overcharged by going to the long way to the Luxor! My mother was M-aaad, she now knows ways to make the cabbies honest, threatening them by calling the T.A. We also took in a time share tour…that is three hours of my life I will never get back. Vasilly, a Russian transplant, who was so kind to give us the “presentation”, was not happy with us because “some people like to take vacations!” He was going to make us read magazines for 2 hours because we weren’t interested but instead threatened that the IRS was going to check into us! What a jerk…the best part was the bus ride back where we were able to talk to everyone else who was just in it for the free tickets!

We did reap two benefits from the “stupid” timeshare presentation—tickets to Tournament of Kings and money for the More Buffet. The Tournament of Kings was something that I had heard about and was cool…something that I had never done before. The idea is based on the Knights of the Round Table. They have dancing maidens, a court jester, jousting, knightly games, and sword fighting. It was dinner and a show; we were served a meal (bun, broccoli, steak fries, soup, and a whole chicken) without silverware!

The next day we walked everywhere, Grace and I actually had to buy new shoes to keep up with Mom! We walked all the way down to the Palazzo! Other places we walked included Fremont Street and in the ghetto/dark streets behind the MGM! The worst part about Vegas is everything looks close, until you start walking! Ugh!

Tiffy was also down in Vegas at the same time we were! She was taking in the scenes for Miss Rodeo America for next year when she will be competing. She managed to drag me out and feed me Jell-O shots at Coyote Ugly and convince me to dance on the bar. Her logic was that I came to Vegas to get drunk and make bad decisions and she was there to help accomplish my goals!

When we visited Fremont Street, we went to one of my favorite Vegas places, Mermaids! We had the nicest servers, one was from Ethiopia! She won the Ethiopian lottery and when you win you get to go to America! She made sure to keep Mom and Grace content with Marquaritas and Vodka Crans. We also played the penny slots for over an hour! Mom did get nervous when we were down two dollars! We ended up breaking even!

After Grace left for back home, we mourned her loss by tanning at Mandalay Bay Beach and touring the Cowboy Christmas Booth Shows. It was fun to meander and see all the expensive clothes, jewelry, tack, furniture that was completely western inspired. We also toured the Shark Reef, where Mom touched a sting ray!

It was great to get out of town and be in the sun for a little bit! The room at THEhotel was amazing and I’m glad that Mom had a conference so we could stay in it. The best part wasn’t where we were at, but it was the company and the laughs. So many of it was the little things…the I-guess-you-had-to-be-there laughs, but those are the best!

Saturday, November 28, 2009

I'm thankful for time (to grow, to be, to change, to breath)

I’m so in countdown mode. I can’t wait for Vegas….I’ve been looking at ideas, looking at weather, and looking at my wardrobe. I need this escape and can’t wait to get on the plane.

Thanksgiving was this week, it was a hard day and I appreciate my family (and Misha) for being patient with me try to get my legs underneath me. I know that everything will be fine, I’m stepping into my new future.

Look for me on the news on KQCD or KFYR (if you are Bismarck)…I will be on Monday Night on the Roughrider report with Cebe Schneider. I’m not sure how it will go as I suddenly developed public speaking nerves! I was talking about Ladies Night Out. We had a great write up in the Press this week with a few great quotes from me. I’m hoping the event will be a huge success! Be sure to check out the article in City Magazine, I wrote a story on the event and I’m excited about how it turned out!

Next week I get ready for Christmas with decorating. I’m looking forward to putting up the tree; this is Lola’s first Christmas with me. I’m hoping she’s not a tree-scaler! TonyDanza has loved eating the tinsel in the past, this year we are leaving it Off for sure!

Friday, November 20, 2009

Little time, little steps, little breaths...

It’s amazing how your life can change in two weeks. Dan has moved-picked up all of his furniture and things. We are both moving on with our lives in one way or another. What amazes me about life changes are the people and messages that emerge, things that you didn’t see before.

I’ve been working on home improvement projects. Since Elvis left, I had to install a new lock on the garage. It was my first big project alone. It’s not quality craftsmanship but I did it and I did it mostly by myself. I’ve worked on other projects with my family’s help—they came out on Sunday and did so much for me. I don’t know what I’d do without them. I want to also thank my grandmother who thought of me and replaced my prehistoric dryer with one from Grandma Kinney. It’s comforting to have a piece of her in my house.

I’ve been busy at work; my department (which consists of Julie and me) is working on 14 or 15 projects right now! We are extremely dedicated right now to Ladies Night Out Shopping Celebration, which is a downtown kick off to the holiday season in Dickinson. I picked up this idea from Hillsborough, NC and we decided to give it a western ND twist. I’m excited about the event but will miss it because I will be in Vegas. If I wasn’t going to be on vacation, I would be very disappointed.

Vegas is coming up, and I am looking forward to the escape from reality. Mom and I talked Grace into coming…I can’t image all the laughs that I have in store. I will be sure to take pics as I’m sure I will remember this trip for the rest of my life. This time next week, I will be packing my bag for sin city! I’ll send TonyDanza and Lola postcards!

I’m waiting for some sense of normalcy to return to me—not sure what that means but I hope I recognize it when it comes. Keep my heart in your prayers as it hurts sometimes.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Some times you have to deal.

This post is hard to write…

The wedding has been cancelled and Dan has moved out. This has been a long hard week full of questions with little answers. Please keep both of us in your prayers as we are not in the highest of spirits.

We have split up the family…2 cats = 1 dog. Not only did I have to say good bye to Dan but I also said good bye to Elvis. TonyDanza didn’t seem to mind and I’m sure the mailman isn’t feeling my pain.

Things will be different in our worlds for awhile.
But right now, I miss my best friend.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Tiiimmmmeeeee, Is on our Side!

It’s November 1, and my mother’s favorite sortof holiday! Fall Back Day! Hooray!

We were thoroughly disappointed with Halloween. We pre-ate most of our candy, bought more and only had 5 tricker-treaters in one group! Ugh! I was so excited to see all the cute costumes! Boo! They wanted to put Lola into their baskets…I said No way! Now we have more candy around the house! Boo!

Dan and I made a little fall feast for ourselves last night. We had the last large roast of our beef from last year, potatoes, and carrots, and gravy. I’ve never made gravy so it was a learning experience. It wasn’t too bad but it was a little thick. I’ll never be anywhere close to Grandma Elaine’s but I’ll keep trying!

We watched movies last night, the Rocky Horror Picture Show and Dogma. I give both movies 2 stars on the D&A Rating Scale. My favorite parts included the Time Warp and Alanis Morrissette portraying God, a role that really can’t be topped! Once you portray God, the rest of your roles would really seem meaningless.

It took the good part of the week to return to 100% health-I hate being sick but I had so many liquids! Sickness has really been going around this week. I’m happy that Dan didn’t pick up what I had. Two of us being sick would be awful! I hate when just one of us is—and Dan usually comes down with everything, little hypochondriac!

In 4 weeks…I’m plan on being in Vegas! The countdown is ON! :)

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Slow week...AT HOME!

So…I’m sick…and I hate it! A nice weekend, with sunshine, and a Friday off for all the extra hours I put in this week…and I smell like Vic’s and have the taste of lemon-honey cough drops and airborne seeping through my pores! Byuck! This was the first weekend, we’ve had a chance to be home for the most part. I was going to clean and organize…all I did was organize my DVR! Ugh!

This week was busy with Field Day and the Innovate ND Kickoff. Our day was a success, Julie and I were very happy with the ending results and the amount of people that came and some of the conversations that took place. There is always room for improvement but we feel that Field Day has a great starting place. We will probably build it into next year’s budget!

I realize that I haven’t brought up much about the animals lately, probably because we have hardly spent time with our constant running around the county side. This past week, I have noticed a few things about our little herd. Lola has learned how to knock. When she feels that her presence should be made, at 3:42 am, she will set to knocking on our door to alert us to the fact that A.) she knows how to knock and B.) she wants to be let in. First time was cute, after that the novelty wore off. TonyDanza has been very conscious of plastic around the house and feels that it is his duty to clean each plastic bag with his tongue. We aren’t sure if this is a mineral deficiency or what exactly, we thought this habit would break but so far, no so much! Elvis-who continues to hate the mailman, now serves as Dan’s alarm clock. When Dan’s alarm did not go off for 3 days this week, it wasn’t a worry as the barking and whiney from below our window served as an alarm for both of us. It’s great during the week, but we are not sure how to educate Elvis on the difference between work days and weekends! All in all, we continue to be amazed with our herd, but have decided no more additions will be made ANY time soon!

Dan has been busy with work, but has run into trouble with Northwest Tire in Dickinson. They changed his oil this past weekend, but forgot about the transmission fluid when they finished. That left him in Grassy Butte trying to find a tow truck at 8:00 on Sunday morning. We’ll see how his manager does with finding him a new truck, until his can be repaired.

He spent some time with the boys this weekend. Korey will be leaving for National Guard basic training and AIT in 2 weeks. It hasn’t quite hit Dan yet that he’s going, but Dan said it might be a long winter! We are proud of Korey for following his dream of joining up and wish him luck and a quick return! We received a postcard from Chris in the mail this week. He was in Germany, based at a previous concentration camp. It was exciting to hear from him. These guys make me think of my sister and hope that she is preparing well for her future.

We had a guest this week, Alexis came on Wednesday night and we entertained her at Sanford’s and spent some of the night talking. It reminded me of high school—except a lot of things has changed! We are all grown up, well physically; I am still a whiner when it comes to being sick!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Getting plans set for __(insert option here)___!

Where was last week’s post!? Life got busy but we are so glad that we had a beautiful weekend, probably the last one before the snow covers us! It actually got to be 77 in Bismarck. It took all fall to have a beautiful day! WE NEEDED iT!

Work is busy for the both of us…Dan has been working for 11 to 13 hour days all week. I’ve been putting together the details for the first ever Community Field Day, which will have 12 speakers (4 panels) of people that have championed special events or campaigns in their community. These panelist are from all over-Fargo, Bismarck, Williston, Stanton, Dickinson, Bowman, Hettinger…Allll over! We’ve never done anything like this before so I’m a bit nervous about the details of it all…fingers are crossed.

Mom and I are getting our ducks in a row for the Vegas trip! Got the motel, got the flights, maybe even got Aunt Grace to go—We’ll see. I’m excited because I’m getting a bit stir-crazy and need a vacation! We are staying at the Luxor and Mandalay Bay. I don’t have a count down for the days yet…but believe me I’m getting close.

Alaina, Mom, and I went to the Simply Elegance Bridal Show in Bismarck today. It was fun to see Kristi and Wes there. It was Wes’s idea to go. I thought that it was cute that they went as a couple. There were booths and vendors of all sorts of ideas…decorators, photographers, printers, DJ’s, bridal shops, and an ice sculptor. My favorite was the Scentzy’s, the flameless wax company, and the samples of cupcakes! I thought it was great for Mom and Alaina to go with me-it was a bit overwhelming to see all the vendors and options and some of the other brides. One of the women that signed up before me had her date set for July of 2011…WOW…I thought I was a planner.

Shout-out to Tiffany, the newest member of North Dakota Royalty. I’m glad that one of her dreams has officially come true. It’s exciting to see little Tiffy in her crown and leather with the crown and sash!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Wedding Bells...Hearing them all over!

Wedding Checklist:
X Date- October 2, 2010
X Church- Calvary United Methodist Church
X Hall- Mandan Eagles Club
X DJ- K Hook
X Photographer- Yetter Photography
X Colors- Navy and Silver
And the newest check….Centerpieces!

After shopping at the Kuntz (Hirsch) Floralpalooza (in their garage) we found some pretty nice peony center pieces! Tiffany tried to convince me that we need trees as centerpieces, but I was on to her shrewd business skills. Between Kim and Tiff, I think we made a great choice.

Kim and I also celebrated my birthday by filling up on soup, salad, and breadsticks! Weirdest thing was that 2 major huge spills happened at the restaurant while we were there within 5 minutes! We were scared we were next to be dumped on!

Ours was not the only wedding we talked about this weekend, my cousin Jaden got married to Sam on Saturday in Elgin. Nothing about Jaden is traditional so we weren’t too shocked when we saw 5 bridesmaids and 10 groomsmen! We think it may have been the theatrical reaction to the movie “27 Dresses”! It was great to see family. I think that Dan has met 90% of my extended family—and he’s still with me so that is a good sign! We have another wedding this coming week!

The weather could have been terrible for Sam and Jaden...which it has been most of the week. But we were happy it wasn't as bad as the first part of the week had been. We actually turned the heater on this week! Our house temp actually got to 54 degrees! Brrrr...We are SO not ready for winter! Heck-we are still waiting for summer!

Well, the Lions broke the streak! They had a win last Sunday! Hooray! However this week..back to Boo. Poor Dan, someday being a fan won't be so hard for him!

We also want to give a shout-out to Tiffy, who will be competing for Miss Rodeo North Dakota next weekend!

Monday, September 28, 2009

26 & 29--The lucky numbers this year!

Happy Birthday to US! Hooray! We had a great weekend back home in Bismarck! We had great food and company. On Friday night, we met up with Bryan and Corey and ate at Texas Road House! Ohhh…that is one of my Bismarck favorites. We also got to spend time with our parents…all of them! They came over for official birthday night supper. It was fun to get everyone together to celebrate us and the engagement. We talked wedding and upcoming plans. This wasn’t the only planning that Dan and I did over the weekend for the wedding. We went and looked at the place we chose for the hall, the Mandan Eagles. We took a peak at how it looked set up for a different wedding! It was exciting to think of ideas that we could do with the location! We also took a look at our church on Sunday morning and began to think of details with the ceremony!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Little Getaway to the Hills!

We just had a great weekend in Rapid City-the purpose was to go down for Alexis’s wedding. She had a beautiful ceremony and it was an honor to be part of her day. She looked beautiful and the day was wonderful! We are excited to see how the photos turned out! We figured that we have 7 weddings to go to (at least) before ours so we are watching and getting ideas from others that we think are cute. I do have to admit, Dan cleans up pretty well so I’m very excited to see him in a tux!

We decided to stay a long a little longer to enjoy each other and the hills. We even had a little time to windowshop and play a bit!


Elvis even had an eventful weekend. We took him with us to Rapid and dropped him off at Safe Haven Pet Resort. He spent a couple days hanging out in doggie daycare-they told us he was really well behaved when we picked him up. Dan and I had a pretty good laugh on the last day though. We picked him up and decided to go down to Bear Country with him. On the corner of Mount Rushmore Drive and Main, there is a statue of President Taft bent over. Elvis took one look at him and growled! Good thing that bronze statue didn’t give us a second look-otherwise Elvis would have taken him out!

One of the best things that we did this weekend, besides eating at IHOP for the first time, was go to Bear Country. It was definitely worth the time and money to go and visit. Elvis really enjoyed it; he was staring the bears down and keeping his eye on all 180 of them! He was tough until he got nose to nose with the bronze statue—not so tough then! We loved the bear cubs…they were SO cute!

After leaving Bear Country, we took a drive to the Faces and through the hills on the way back home. It was nice to drive talk and see scenery that we are not used to at home! One thing that would have made the day is if the weather would have been decent!


Amanda said Yes when Daniel Asked!

I've been working on this post for about two weeks...life got the better of me, but I wanted to post our story!

This past weekend is one we will remember for the rest of our lives. Daniel and I are engaged! It was a complete surprise…I did not expect it at all.

We started the day off by stopping at Sears to try on fall coats, and I thought I left my phone sitting on a pile of gloves and had kissed it goodbye in my mind! We had gone to Olive Garden to have soup, salad, and breadsticks with Ashley and Jesse—well in the middle of the wonderful food; I left my phone SOMEWHERE….but I didn’t even think it would be at the restaurant. Daniel was so mad at me and told me that I was cutting his time with his mother short and he didn’t like to keep postponing. Well I became mad because he was abandoning me in my “hour of NEED” but come to find out he was scared to death that he wasn’t going to make it to the bank before it closed!

We talked later that day, after I had to buy a new phone and he apologized. I forgave him and told him that I’d meet him for supper with Nancy and Larry. When I showed up we had a steaks and wine. He polished off the end of a bottle and decided to have another bottle. We decided to sit on the patio and he was going to open the second bottle and bring glasses out. Little did I know, he was putting the ring on my drink charm of my glass. He brought out the wine for Nancy and Larry. Nancy took a drink and informed me that it “was kinda bitter and not as good as the last one”. When Dan came out he set my glass down, well I didn’t want the bitter wine so I took his glass, completely oblivious to the ring. He looked at me like I kicked his dog and I didn’t understand why! He picked up my phone to look at it…and played with it for awhile…and set it down in front of me. I picked it up to see what he changed the banner to and saw….”Will you marry me?” As I looked at this and asked him if he was serious, he put my old glass back in front of me, with the ring on the charm! I couldn’t believe it!! Just goes to prove, I can’t make anything easy for him! :)

We were able to tell my parents right away. We met Mom and Dad for drinks afterward and Dan helped me break the news-I’ve never had to start that conversation and needed the help! I was also glad it worked out to tell them right away.

Since the engagement, we’ve picked a date…OCTOBER 2, 2010. We’ve picked the church, Calvary United Methodist (on 34th and Rosser in Bismarck) and we’ve picked our hall-Mandan Eagles Club. The tricky decisions are mostly done…now the detail work!

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Taking a deep breath! Relax from what's happened or gearing up for what's coming??

Actually this week was pretty slow…almost didn’t know what to do with ourselves!! This is the pause before the weekends that don’t stop! Next week-Bismarck, then Rapid City, Bismarck, Elgin, Bismarck, then maybe stay home for a little bit before taking off to Fargo and Pillager (which I have no clue where that is!) We are excited about seeing all of the family and friends in the next couple weeks!

Because we are seeing so much family, I began to brief Daniel on my family tree. This has taken a few discussions and some diagramming. My next plan is to watch “My Big Fat Greek Wedding” which explains multiple things, especially when the main character has a monologue like this…
“At Christmas, my mom makes roast lamb…So what happens is my dad and my uncles fight to see who gets to eat the lamb brain- then my aunt forks out the eyeball and chases me around with it, trying to get me to eat it because it’s going to make me smart-I have 27 first cousins, just first cousins alone, and my whole family is big and loud and everyone is in each other’s business…” My goal is to not frighten him!

One other exciting thing is that I booked my flight for the first week of December—Mom and I are making a trip to Vegas! She has a conference and I’m tagging along to lounge and hang out at Mandalay Bay in Sin City! I’m pumped!

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Cuts, Caging, & Combining!

Well-the week started off a bit dicey- Dan cut his finger slicing up watermelon. We had to call Nancy to make sure we didn’t have to take him into the emergency room or take him behind the garage and shoot him! He’s healing up but it hurt for a couple days.

We have caged the beast! Elvis officially has a fence! It is making the mailman feel a lot better. Dan built this all by himself-well him and Elvis. Last week at the rummage sale, we used the basic structure of the fence to hold clothes. Some people thought I was pretty ingenious! I thought it was resourceful!

I went home for the weekend to help harvest. Dad’s crop is pretty amazing—I even slugged the combine-something that I’ve never done! Not only is it thick…but it was the heaviest he’s seen. We started piling the oats on the ground! He’s almost done combining and we hope that he’s completed by my birthday!

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Brass Doggies $7, Spanish Dictionary $1, Piece of Mind $.50,

We have survived the rummage sale. Hmmm…it was my first official and I learned some lessons. Lesson #1, do as little labeling as possible, #2-work in pairs, #3-you aren’t going to make what you hoped, #4-some things are hard to watch walk away but in the grand scheme of life-do you need it, #5-put an ad in the paper, #6-there are people out there that will amaze you! I am proud to say that I sold a lot of things…Janice’s roller skates, Jerry’s roller blades, an old bed frame, ‘the pool’, blinds, some clothes, VHS movies, knick knacks, and more…..it was amazing what we thought would go away quick and what actually did! I’m proud to say that I officially have my garage back! Hooray!

Other things worth mentioning….Dan has had that cooking spirit lately and I’m loving every minute. This week he made manicotti, ravioli, sloppy joes, and a Guinness roast. He wasn’t happy with how the roast turned out, so he’s going to try it again this Friday. I won’t complain! The only bad thing is that since he was prepping the feast he cut his finger really badly. The worst part is that it’s right on the tip making working not too much fun!

This week I was really busy at work, we haven’t filled the assistant staff position yet. I had a Partners Gathering, which is basically the organizations involved with community development sent representatives from communities and their organization to talk about leadership development, community vision, and mobilizing resources. We had 25 individuals come to this invite-only event and we were impressed with the caliber of conversation. Something like this had never been done, so we weren’t sure what to expect.
Because we brought our consultant from Nebraska up, we also took care of other actions/work that was happening in other communities. We made a trip up to Killdeer and we visited the Buckskin. I had a sirloin that wasn’t too bad! When I was in Lincoln, he took me to such wonderful places, it’s hard to compete with our limited resources.

Dan officially said good bye to Chris this week. It was hard to think do and we will be thinking about him, and others that we know that went with. Krista Glanville (Amy I’s sister) is another one that we hope will come home soon. She has a husband and little boy that she shouldn’t be apart from. The only positive thing about the situation is that it is Kosovo versus Iraq or Afghanistan.

TO end on a good note, we are extremely happy for my cousin Wes and Kristi, who have been together for-E-ver! They announced their engagement on Saturday night. I thought it was very timely and went shopping through the rummage sale remains! Good thing for them Jerry’s shoe-shine box was sold!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Good-byes Stink.

Another filled week, one of the big things that happened was that we packed and said good-bye to Aunt Janice. She and Jerry moved across state to West Fargo. We hated to say good bye for multiple reasons, it was great to have family close by, especially her, but also we hated to pack all of their things. They have sooooo much stuff! I threw out her picnic provisions and now she is fighting with me! I told her I’d make it up to her! Dan and I will miss them both terribly.

Another good bye that we hate to even think about is to Dan’s friend Chris. He is going with the Nat'l Guard to Kosovo. We visited Bismarck on Saturday to spend a little time with him and his fiancé, Rhianna. The meal with this friends were full of news—including Rhianna is pregnant and Corey, another best friend of Dan’s, has decided to join the National Guard. We are nervous and excited for all of them!

While we were in Bismarck, we also were able to spend a little time with both sides of family. We took in Alaina’s horse show…her favorite part—the speed events! She placed in each of the events that we were able to watch and my mom was also excited to tell me that she placed in Western Riding. I’m glad that Alaina continues to pursue and enjoy her horse passion. We went to Deb and Dan’s for supper and I think we could live there!! We had beer-battered fried fish, garlic-mashed potatoes, corn on the cob, and crème brulee! Amazing!! We were able to talk with Dan’s stepbrother and fiancé about their upcoming November wedding.

Another mentionable happening is that Dan just trained, tested, and was promoted to a Level 3. He is so excited because he has moved up quicker in Dish since he’s been back than some of his other co-workers! I’m so proud of him!

I was elected Dickinson YP president. I’m a little nervous about this position. I’m not sure if I’m ready to commit the time or be able to make a difference but I guess time will tell!

Monday, August 10, 2009

The Official Party!


We want to say THANK YOU!! We had a fabulous day with friends and family at our housewarming. It was great to share what we had done. Dan was in charge of grilling, and I was the professional tour giver! We had more food than we had friends—burgers, hot dogs, pasta salad, spinach dip, chocolate cake, watermelon, cucumbers, angel food cake(from Scratch), scotcheroos, chips, bean salsa, beans, raspberry whitecake, fresh fruit, cupcakes, cookies, and more!!

It was fun to show off some of the things we’ve done and what some of our plans were. We have other plans in mind but we’ll wait and see. It would be great to have the floors done and the appliances all the same color…but it will take time (and money!)
Everyone made the day extra special but special points go to my Mother who made the day so successful, she helped us clean, cook, meet and greet, and kept the party moving! Honorable mention goes to my sister, who took camera responsibilities!

We are gearing up for the big rummage sale and getting ready to say good bye to Aunt Jani and Jerry. Keep you posted!

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Elvis-inspired Joke!

A burglar enters this ‘empty’ house and begins to survey the scene. All of the sudden in a small voice he hears, “I can see you and so can Jesus!” He jumps in surprise and looks around. No one is there—“I can see you and so can Jesus!” He looks all over again and in the corner, half-hidden, is a mangy parrot, “I can see you and so can Jesus!” The burglar rolls his eyes and says “What are you really going to do, you are nothing but a stinky parrot,” The parrot says, “but Jesus is a Rottweiler!”

Where did July go? Can we get a Mulligan!

OH my gosh…I woke up this past week and realized July is GONE!

I’ve been so busy I haven’t been able to blog or hardly sit! In the past two weeks, Dan and I have gone and done SO much! I’ll start with me…I’ve attended a Toastmasters Meeting, a Kiwanis Meeting, was nominated for President of the Dickinson YP, hit 90 days of being a Pampered Chef Consultant, painted, flew to Nebraska to visit the Center for Rural Entrepreneurship, had my haircut, did two Pampered Chef parties, and had strategic planning at work---phew!!! Daniel hasn’t been sitting at home either—he is down to 5 days a week, and Thank God! But he’s been to Grand Forks to have a boy-weekend. One of his close friends, Chris, is going to Kosovo with the guards in August and the buys wanted to throw him a good-bye party. Dan has also become eligible for a promotion and will go through the training and take the test sometime in August! He’s been becoming a regular at the gym again and is the chief dog-walker in the house!

One ‘little’ surprise that Daniel came home to this past week was that when he took off to Grand Forks, I decided to paint a majority of the inside of the house. In fact—every room in the upstairs is different than when we moved in! I’d like to do a shout-out to Aunt Janice for helping with the bedroom! I’m not putting pics up, because those that are coming to the housewarming party (on 8-8) will get a full unveiling and I want to make sure the surprise is intact! But to give you a preview I bought dusty rose, seasonal green, seafoam, muslin, harvest wheat, crisp toast, elephant gray, teal, and firewater! Hooray for color. You’ll have to ask Daniel for his reaction, it did take a couple days to get used to it!

This past weekend, Nancy and Larry came. It was a great day; we went to breakfast and headed out to the golf course! This was our first official time golfing for the season and all things considered, we did really well! It was great for them to take us because it reminded us that we really enjoy going together and we need to make time to go. Daniel got a 2 on one hole…he lost two balls and then gave up! I only lost one for the whole day, but when you aren’t hitting them very far—you don’t have to worry about searching too far! I won’t mention how many he lost!

Just to let you know what’s coming up, If you are reading the blog…you are invited to our housewarming party—it is on August 8th come anytime in the afternoon! Also we are having a rummage sale on August 15th….you can buy our slightly loved things or drop things off for us to put out!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

One Room Renovations! Hooray for new-ish Bathroom!

Well…this week, we were just going to rip the paneling down in the bathroom and it went full bore and redid the bathroom! It doesn’t even look like the same bathroom…..it’s amazing. Three Cheers go to Jack and Kim! We owe them sooo much…Dan and I put some hours in but couldn’t have done it without them! Here are some working pics….In order, they are taking the paneling down, putting the plaster up, painting the wall, painting the ceiling and ripping up the sticky floor, and finally putting the floor down...

and the ending result......

On Wednesday, we were in the middle of the bathroom renovation (we didn’t have a sink or a toilet) when the tornado hit. On Thursday, Jerry gave us a tour of the tornado’s path. The devastation was so saddening. There is suppose to be another storm in the coming week…I’m hoping we continue to be safe.