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Monday, March 18, 2013

Who Likes Kevin?


Well it’s been a week. We had beautiful weather, in the 60’s and today I scrapped snow off my car. We’ve been house hunting and Matt’s been having work issues but we had the chance to forget about them this past weekend.

Matt and I took off for Bismarck early Saturday morning. We stopped in at Target to do our registry! I’d been warned that it may not be a fun ordeal. We had a great time. Matt, being the hog that he is, wouldn’t give up the scanner, but he was on good behavior. We struggled with a few items of if we need it and what we have and what do we want. We’ve both been so established for so long that we have so many items and it’s hard to imagine what to get. We know we needed glasses and silverware but wanted to give a good range of items. We went through kitchen, cleaning, linens, outdoor, and even electronics. Matt wanted to register for a flat screen television, I put the Kibash on that.

From there, we met Michele, Randy, and Kevin, who flew in for a work thing. We grabbed a quick bite and headed out to the farm for the official $10 tour! We got to take in the newest calves too and Matt even checked out the two that we have on the ground. He told me we have a great big guy and then the one we just purchased has some opportunities to show great growth. It does feel good that Matt is excited to be involved and is taking an active interest. From there came the “big show”…the pizza showdown. I’m impressed with the extent that both Randy and Kevin go to in delivering a quality pizza. And the best gift that Matt and I ever gave Randy is the deep dish...he’s really perfected that since day 1, it’s never been bad, and I realized this weekend that they’ve changed my habits and I like the pepperoni and jalapeno that is the house special. Now I don’t know if I had a favorite chef, couldn’t force me to choose because Kevin used havarti cheese and that added a great flavor and his Stromboli should be sold!! So I’m torn and then add my mother’s peach cobbler and it’s like I’ve died and gone to heaven! It was fun to share this experience with my family, who has only heard about my previous experiences with the Remynse pizza.

On Sunday, we kicked off the day at St. Anthony’s club at the annual breakfast and bake sale for the Ladies Auxiliary. I was able to done on my brand new Aux shirt too! Michele was impressed at how Matt and I finished out! Matt and the rest of the firemen did the cooking and the ladies watched the bake sale and managed tables as people came through. After that, we showed off what’s been going on in Dickinson between the growth, the new building, and the oil/energy activity to the three of them, it was also good for me as I haven’t driven around for awhile. We then concluded with a tour of homes, two to be exact. We needed outsiders’ opinions on some houses that grabbed our attention when we looked at them.

From there Matt cooked steaks on the grill to perfection and we enjoyed talking, conversation, and 2 out of 3 kitties for the rest of the night (crabbie Nike). It was such a great weekend and reminded me how great family is to have close and also made me lucky that I have such an amazing family but I’m also get to have another amazing family that isn’t shy to share, laugh, or joke!

Best Meal: I love pizza showdowns. MMMMMMMMMM. Could do that every week..probably a good thing I can't!

“That’s disgusting.” KMR watching Nike cuddle Matt.
“Welcome to my world, Ever.Night.” ALM to KMR
“Hey, you you’ve lost your girlish figure, he’s going to move on!” KMR to Nike, who seemed unimpressed with this statement, I think she plotted his death under the shoe bench all night.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Searching....

House Count: 19 houses (and counting)
House Hunt: 1 week

Well we’ve added a couple more showings to our pooling number. With that we’ve seen a few more “gems”.

-One had a galley kitchen, a dark bathroom, but it was well kept and had three stalls. I tried to convince myself that I liked it but Matt finally told me to give up. It didn’t break my heart that it got an offer on it after being on the market for 2 days.

-One house had 8 Hispanic men renting a 5 bedroom room. Matt’s “favorite” part of the house was their Budlight furniture. They had empty beer boxes duct taped together to form their household furniture. The house had a distinct smell and the need for hand sanitizer when we left.

-Another house, split entry looked nice, had a beautiful yard with garden space, was well kept up, it actually reminded of the house my Aunt Lynn and Uncle Wade used to be in. We had a few hiccups including 70’s carpeting, but that could replaced, what couldn’t would be the interstate and associated noise in the backyard.

-Final house, I liked. Older than I wanted but had complete updates and a huge basement. What Matt didn’t like was the busy street that ran across the front of the house. He counted 10 cars in 1 minute, which are not good odds for Nike the runner. We’d need to fence her in the backyard…and maybe put some bird feeders in to keep her occupied.

So the house hunt continues.

best meal: I made some chicken alfredo linguine (no I didn't have fettucine noodles, it was fine).

“It could be worse, we’ve seen worse. Has anyone been shot in here yet, that we know?” ALM





Tuesday, March 12, 2013

House Hunting

The search is on. Matt and I have made some big decisions lately, we’ve decided it’s time to start looking for a house. We’ve met with the bank, we have a realtor, and we’ve been looking. We have officially looked at 15 houses. And some of those I use the term “house” pretty loosely. We have some criteria in mind as we look. We’d like 3 bedrooms, we’d like 3 garages (but we’ll settle for 1 stall), built after 1975, built before 2011, more than one bathroom, a yard for Matt to play in, not on a busy street for Nike, and in a neighborhood that has future potential.


Here’s a rundown of some of the houses we looked at:
-When the fridge dies, we’d have to remodel the kitchen.
-One had a bedroom off the kitchen/dining room, Matt didn’t like it. It also had the yard sectioned off into multiple pieces so it really was a fenced yard.
-One had been a do-it-yourselfers dream, beautiful curb appeal, but that was the only good thing about the house, the outside.
-One was purple: purple walls, purple doors, purple steel siding, purple wallpaper, and a million feet of decks to paint
-Two didn’t have garage entrances from the inside, yet they were attached.
-One had a fire hazard in the closet and was on a truck route
-One was a modular with a peek-a-boo kitchen in a questionable neighborhood, on a half lot, meaning if we ever had a fire, we probably couldn’t rebuild
-One was beautiful, new construction with a pantry, master bath, and great den and then you looked at the neighbors yard out the huge sliding glass door and you saw the swing set, the rundown dog house, the add on unfinished shed, the 3 dirt bikes, the car on blocks, the garbage everywhere, the kids cars, and the ditch filled with water five feet from the front door.
-One was so scarily messy, we even had a warning before we walked in. They told us it was a finished basement and I can’t confirm or deny because there was so much stuff I couldn’t see the walls or floor. And the utility room also served as a the secondary bath, they just put up a picture screen.
-One was the perfect image of the seventies, complete with yellow/green/white shag, ½ the wallpaper was yellow flowered, ½ was green, orange, and yellow striped, and it looked well taken care of and pristine and it was looking hopeful until we went downstairs and Matt couldn’t stand up right without the fear of bashing his head.
-One had Matt’s hopes high until we got there and the backyard was missing, the back of the house was a trailer/camper, and when we went to leave Matt remembered that a shooting had happened.
-One had no upper cupboards, only a closet. It also had 13 different colors of primary color paints, all the carpet was different, and the redesigners seemed to like platforms and cutouts. I got suckered in because there was a pic of the French doors.
-One hasn't had updates since it was built in 1975 and it said it had a fenced-in yard. The fence appeared to be missing, unless they were refering to their neighbor's fence, and it should have said, 1/3 fenced yard which contains pitbull. Great, Nike would HATE us.
-AND "eat-in kitchen" is not a beneficial attributed, it basically means, no dining room, you better have a small table

When we were finished we felt exhausted and disappointed. We did find something we like with a great open floor plan but after some more research we determined it’s in the 100-year flood plain, which means we are forced to buy flood insurance and we are also waiting to find out a bit more about the settling and the foundation. We are still looking as we sort this house info out but I did forget how it’s a difficult venture to move forward as we look. Good thing we have family to bounce ideas and questions off while we are searching.

Brendan came for guards this past weekend and him and Matt were able to spend some quality time together including a few hands of gin which escalated into yahtzee which grew eventually into drunk yahtzee.

“I had high hopes for this one.” MJR after looking at the added-on trailer “But it would be like living in a camper all year. You think you could get something in this town!”

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Life is Tough for the Unhappy Kitty

So Matt’s in Fargo, “working”. I say he’s “working” because technically he’s there for the airport and his job but I use the quotes because he’s basically sitting with other airport nerds talking about ramps and runways and air space and wx and environmental assessments and impact studies and tsa and faa (not ffa) and on and on and these people actually talk back about ramps and runways and air space and wx and environmental assessments and impact studies and tsa and faa AND THEY LIKE IT! And then sometimes they take these conversations and enhance them with libations, so yes, Matt’s in Fargo, “working.”


Meanwhile I’m at home with his very angry kitty. She is pissed that I’m there. I think she was pissed that no one was there for awhile but my daily presence may be even more exasperating. To top it off, when I came home on Sunday it had been raining and everything was soaked so I chose not to let her go outside, not to torture her but to prevent a wet angry kitty. Well, I avoided the wet part. She sat by the door and screamed at me for an hour, went and ate and then sat by the door and screamed again for another half hour. Then she had a slap fight with both cats who I’m sure were not appreciative of her “lockedinsidehissy” fit. And then to top it off she went and skulked into the back bedroom and laid under the bed on Matt’s gun case for the rest of the night. The next night was a basic repeat of the first night except I let her go outside into the wet snow. That excursion lasted about 7 minutes until she decided she wasn’t happy outside either. Life is tough when Matt is off gallivanting without her.

Best meal: potato soup, which Matt doesn’t like, but I think it’s amazing, so I made it for myself!

“MAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW” Nike

Monday, March 4, 2013

In like a ???

I’m looking out my window at the snow that is covering the ground and am thinking of spring. It’s been a decent winter, we’ve had the snow-melt cycle that’s been working for us here but I will say, I hate the ice that is a result of this pattern. But the snow keeps coming, boo. March always makes me wonder, it’s close enough to spring to be hopefully but usually produce the wettest/biggest storms.

This past weekend we spent away from home. We went to Bismarck so we could support Janice at Jerry’s father’s funeral. I wish that I could have been closer to her this week as I know it was hard for her as Jerry flew in at the last moment and funeral planning for Stan was very trying. The frustration in her voice was obvious to me and it made me hurt that she hurt. She also informed me that she wants to die in a quiet way and her funeral to match. I think we’ll stick with her original plan of sticking her in the front porch swing with a bottle of gin, with a ton of ice, and a beverage napkin. When we showed up in Fessenden, she was so glad, but how I knew that she appreciated it was when our troop (Grandma, Descie, Grace, Mom, Matt and I) went to leave, she hugged me so tight and said thank you and said, I have the best family in the whole world as she had tears in her voice.

The whole endeavor was not completely somber, this was Matt’s first experience alone with Dagman women. It was 5 women to him and he informed us that we were very loud! When we got home, to attempt to balance out his estrogen overload, him and Dad went through our herd so he can start tracking numbers and our efforts, something that I’ve been meaning to do for years. Matt and I don’t have a single calf on the ground yet, Mom and Dad are around 35 to 40, the calves that I helped them work on Sunday were looking pretty good, even the red angus one!

Matt and I also made a major change, we got Straight Talk phone, they are prepaid phones that cancelled out our previous contracts and we are anticipating saving some money. I know my phone will save some money, after getting past the early cancellation fee. The hard part will be adjusting to a new phone again!

Best meal: pizza at McKenzie River, we had a ½ good ol boy, ½ branding iron…and it was Spicy!

“See, I have my own harem, gotta take care of them!” MJR says to me before helping my grandmother out of the vehicle.
½ an hour later after he shushes us…
“Who’d have thought two years ago, you’d have such a noisy harem!” Aunt Descie to Matt